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Many
people wonder how I get any sewing done with so many young children
underfoot. Early on I developed some coping strategies to help me
work, while still paying attention to my children. Here's how I do
it.
Sewing
with tiny babies is very hard. If they aren't reaching for things,
I will sew with them in a sling, or during nap time. Now that I
have a 5 year old, she will hold my baby for me so I can get some
work done.
Once
my babies are about a year old, life gets much easier. I still
utilize my nap times as much as possible, but now I also give my
children something to do while I sew.
Children
love to mimic. So while you are sewing, give your child some sewing
cards or large wooden beads to thread near you. An older child
could use a yarn needle and colorful yarn to stitch onto plastic
canvas pieces. Let them put the stitches where ever they want if
they are a beginner. My 5 year old now does simple embroidery or
makes felt stuffed animals at my feet. Soon she will use my scraps
for making doll clothes.
I
have had very needy children that want to be held all the time.
Sometimes I will hold them on my lap facing me as I run the machine.
I am nearly hugging them as I work, and since they are faced in,
they can't get their finger stitched.
Oh
those colorful pins! My children are attracted to them at an early
stage. Know your children. When I thought it was safe, I let them
hand me the pretty pins as I needed them. Then as I sewed, I handed
it back to them to put in the pincushion. Obviously this can be
dangerous and requires good supervision! Also, when you are not
sewing, be sure the pins are where a child can't reach them, as they
have not learned them to be no-nos. The plus on this is my children
pay close attention to what I am doing when they are helping me in
this way and learn a lot!
We
have an old computer in my sewing room. Sometimes while I sew the
children work on educational games. Then I am right there working in
the room to answer their questions, supervise what they are doing,
and watch their progress.
Books
on tape can hold a child's attention while you sew. They can sit in
the room with you and turn the pages as you listen together. Don't
have any books on tape? Make your own by reading the story aloud on
a cassette and ringing a bell to tell your child when to turn the
page. Don't worry about the room being totally quiet as you record.
If you are reading the book to your child as you record, you will
also get their questions and answers on tape. The children love to
listen to these too, and it will be a treasure for you when your
children are grown up! I also have a battery operated tape recorder
that is designed for small children to run. This allows the child
to listen to several tapes without my needing to stop and help her
turn it over or change cassettes.
I
have found that the more children I have the easier it is because
they play together! If you are finding the opposite—that your
children fight, try setting the timer and switching activities for
them every 15 minutes. This won't allow them to get bored which can
lead to fighting. Also address fighting in your family worship.
Encourage your children to pray for one another and to serve each
other.
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Here's a tip from one of our customers:
Hi Angela! I really like all the goodies you have added to your website. I had another hint for sewing with little ones around - I save all empty spools! They love them to stack, thread onto a long (NOT sharp or pointy) crochet hook or dowel, or to sort or draw on. I also
keep several empty baskets for them to sort things (scraps, spools, their own toys that wander into my sewing space!) for them to fill and refill. Just thought I'd share what works for us! (by the way I have 4 with one on the way!)
Sheila Ryan
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