Welcome Brandon Henry!
Born 10/5/07
At 11:11 P.M.
Weighing 9 lbs 1 oz
20 inches long


Brandon with Heidi (7); Brandon with Caleb (nearly 6); Brandon with Heather (4) ; Brandon with Warren (nearly 2)





Just minutes after birth, my easiest birth so far. Long Birth Story Details Below.
After weeks of false labor, my midwife, Kimberly, scheduled me for an induction. All 4 of my previous babies had had help coming into the world. I finally gave up hope that I could ever go into labor on my own. I had my choice of any day the next week, but I had a difficult time choosing. No one day felt any better than the others. I finally settled for Monday, Columbus day, since it was Darren`s day off. Later, Kimberly called me at home and said I could have the baby Friday (tomorrow) if I wanted. Scheduling for that day made me feel very uneasey, even though it was the day Darren and I had decided weeks earlier would be the nicest day for having a baby. I kept my appointment for Monday.
Friday morning about 6am my contractions started up again, just like they had off and on for the past few weeks. Except, this time, they felt a little crampy. I also felt an urgency to get things done. So I rounded up the kids and we started cleaning. I cleaned the kitchen and took a rest. Cleaned the bathrooms and took a rest. We all pitched in to clean up the sewing studio and adjoining playroom. The kids even took turns vacuuming for me. I rewarded them with sweet tarts. After that I needed a nap. I went up to bed and Heidi made lunch for everyone, cheese chunks and grapes with toast. She even managed to keep the kitchen clean. I slept a little and when I awoke my contractions were about 6 minutes apart. I climbed in the jacuzzi tub at home for a back relieving soak. While there I was able to contemplate that I might actully be in labor. I called my husband who suggested I call Kimberly, “oh, yes—good idea.” Kimberly said I was most likely in early labor, a new experience for me, and that when my contractions were 4-5 minutes apart to go to the hospital. I told her I was afraid they would send me home with a false alarm. She said she would make sure that didn`t happen. It finally hit me. I was having a baby that night!
I felt a small amount of motivational panic. I started repacking the hospital bags. I tossed in a blow up bath pillow (best idea of the whole day) and a hand held fan (second best idea of the whole day.) Then I packed home school bags for the kids to take to grandma`s. I called my mom to let her know I was in labor. She wondered when she should get the kids. I told her my contractions were 6 mintues apart and she came right over. I switched the laundry and straightened up the living room. By then my contractions were 5 minutes apart so I called my husband. He said he had one more tax return to do and then he would leave. “How long will that take?” I wondered. “15 minutes,” he assured me. So I dumped 3 loads of clothes on our bed to fold. I stood beside the bed folding clothes when I realized my contractions were 3 mintues apart. “Faster, faster,” I thought. I wanted those clothes folded and put away before I had to leave. It all sounds so silly now. I got the clothes folded, but was too serious in labor to do any more work. I had to have the house quiet, no TV, no music. It was time to concentrate. I called Darren. I let him know it was real and as soon as he could get here it would be time to go. I could tell by his voice, that he didn`t know if he should believe me.
We got to the hospital around 7:30. I needed Darren to do the talking, I had other things to think about. I was completely effaced and dialted to a 6 by then with a bulging bag of waters. It all seemed so wonderful to me, to actually be in labor with my water in tact, without medical intervention. God is so good, and I have since found out how many people had been praying for me that exactly that would happen. About 8:30 I started shaking uncontrollably. I asked Darren to pray for me. “Out loud?” He wondered. We both have a very deep faith, but we have been bad about keeping it private from each other. After he prayed, I felt an incredible peace and an ability to relax away the shaking. About 9:00, I climbed into the hospital jacuzzi. The bath pillow made it very comfortable for me. When each wave of contractions hit me, I felt my whole spirit singing, “Give thanks with a grateful heart. Give thanks to the Holy One. Give thanks because He`s given Jesus Christ, his Son. And now, let the weak say I am strong, let the poor say I am rich because of what the Lord has done for us. Give thanks.” I felt the Lord very near to me. I knew his hand was on my body and on the tiny life within me. I felt no fear only peace and thankfulness. About 10:00, I felt a incredible urge to get out of the tub. Kimberly checked me and accidentally broke my water. I was an 8. By then I was very hot even though a few minutes before I was freezing. That fan sure came in handy. I was waiting for transtition to start. I was talking to myself about not fearing the increased amount of pain, waiting for those contractions to come right on top of each other with no rest in between. I then became nauseated and the consequences of that got me out of the most difficult part of transition. About 11:00 I just couldn`t sit there one more minute, so the nurses helped me to my side. Big mistake on my part! By this time I should have recognized the sign of being completely dilated (inability to sit still) and just waited for the pushing contractions to start. As soon as I got on my side, those strong pushing contractions started. I do not enjoy pushing on my side, so had to move again. I got in a semi squattig position with the support of pillows and the hospital bed. I felt very peaceful and in control. I asked Kimberly to help me not to tear. I was determined to listen to her and follow her guidance of how fast to push etc. She coached me very well, and I was in complete control of my body. That HUGE baby was born very easily with just a few pushes. For the first time I did not require any stitches after a birth. Praise God! I am fearfully and wonderfully made, and that my soul knoweth right well.

Thanks Kimberly!
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